So Looks like I finally got the courage to do something I should have done a long time ago. Maybe it was the timing. Maybe I just didn’t realize it was what I was missing in my life. But I couldn’t be prouder. Above this enduring stress placed upon me, all I can say is, this is the start of something beautiful. And I hope that this is not something momentarily, but more of a never ending bliss…
Recently I’ve dealt with a lot of trouble because of the “relationships” I went through last year. Throughout last year, I’ve had the privilege of observing and analyzing people’s perspectives on what they label as “A Real relationship”. Though my own personal connections may not have lasted long, I still tried to make them something Worth remembering.
Something I managed to observe is that not many people take them as serious as others.
Every time I reminisce and ponder about the idea of finding something Worth Calling “A True and Meaningful Relationship” these love stories below always come to mind. I base my definition of “Love" on these stories, for I believe they follow perfect examples and contain Well Morals on what Society should Base a Relationship upon.
[A story or two is taken from my own personal experience. Others, are ones that I have witnessed, or was told by a friend on how it happened. See if you can guess which one(s) are mine.]
…& yeah, I know they are going to be SUPER corny, and maybe a bit disturbing to some people, but to me, this is what I think REAL LOVE is all about:
1st story: I saw a couple at school back in my freshmen year that I think was the Very Definition of what a couple should behave as. I would notice them at lunch. (I would sit by myself, so I would have nothing better to do but to observe other people) it was this Nerd couple (in which I mean no offence towards, but I thought that Only Made it look So Much Better), a boy and a girl, that had been going out for months. they would sit with each other everyday at lunch. Once they sat, they would pull out their lunch bags and exchange orange slices and sandwiches. (and that’s not the sweetest part) they would compliment each other randomly. The bestest thing that I thought made it SUPER sweet was how slow they were willing to take their relationship with each other. they weren’t sex maniacs like most high school kids now-a-days. They wouldn’t even mouth-kiss yet. Instead, they would kiss each other on the cheeks once in a while! Now that’s what high school love should be all about!
2nd story:This one ain’t so “mooshy-mooshy”, but what I think is so real about it is how even though it wont somewhat make sense to most people, it’s still love to these 2 people.
I was watching Tyra one day (waiting for King of the Hill to start, and there was nothing else to watch at that time) and they decide to talk about gay couples. so this gay guy is on the show, and out pops…his wife! He was telling Oprah how even though he’s gay, he still loves a woman, and they got married. They have sex just like any normal couple, and they even got a child! I think what makes this REAL LOVE is that they don’t care about the whole “sexual orientation” thing. Love doesn’t have to be about what sexual gender your attracted to, it’s about finding someone who you Just want to be with. :) 3rd story:This story was on Oprah. I was watching Oprah late one night (I was watching the news before, but it ended so I was too lazy to change the channel) and again, they were talking about gay people. Out popped a woman who mentioned being a man before and getting surgery to become woman. Then out pops his (or rather her, since technically he became a she) wife &kids! Oprah asked him how/why? He (I’ma leave it as HE to make it less confusing) mentioned that he always wanted to be a woman before, so he got surgery to change him. They even chopped off this “down there” spot (Oprah asked, that’s how I know). Oprah asked if they have sex, &his wife said not anymore because she’s not PHYSICALLY attracted to a woman. Here’s the sweet thing: (get ready to say AWWW) she says that even though her husband decided to become a man, and even though she might not PHYSICALLY attracted to him anymore, THAT DOES NOT MATTER BECAUSE SHE STILL LOVES HIM!!! :D Isn’t that the sweetest thing you can say! THAT’S WHAT LOVE IS ABOUT!!! To be willing to accept your partner to most of the choices they make (even if its getting yo “down there” cut off), …so long as their choices aren’t bad. SHE DOESN’T CARE ABOUT APPEARANCE, SHE LOVES HER HUSBAND FOR WHO HE IS, NOT WAT GENDER HE MAY BE!!! XD
4th story:So this story is about a couple once shown on the reality show (featuring Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie) called ‘The Simple Life 2: Road Trip’. It’s the episode when Paris and Nicole stay at this one couple’s house, Bob & Gail, and get hired as police officers. Anyways, the couple there discusses how they’ve been married for 33 years, and together for 39! He refers to her as his “junior high school sweetheart because they met since 7th/8th grade! When asked Gail about her husband, she says, “He was a doll. Every time he walks into the room, she still gets the chill-bumps.” It’s rather romantic because the woman still likes the man deeply, and so does the man. Throughout the episode, Nicole helps the man write his wife a poem to show his love for her!!! :D The poem is written as shown below: I love my Gail. And if that’s a crime I’ll go to jail. I don’t care how expensive the bail. Because she makes my heart sail. Sail like a naval boat, Ill keep you warm like an oil skin coat. Without you, I’m a lost little goat. You’ve got me by the throat. I’m so in love. If I wasn’t from central Texas I might cry. Let’s fly in the sky. I love you. I love you. I love you. Booyah.
5th story:A story about “someone’s 1st time”. I find this rather thoughtful because it shows how much one partner is willing to say to make the other partner calm and relaxed during such a memorable moment. Whether this happened to me, or to a friend of mine (that’s for you to try and figure out on your own), I think its sweet what was said to one another. Picture two people together in the woods. A perfect night to get swept in by the moment. Intimacy is about to occur, and one partner is nervous. 1st time for both. To calm the other, the partner tries to talk about something else to relieve the tension. So to do so, a conversation about the Weather forms, mentioning how clear the skies look and what nice weather is given for such a perfect moment as this.
6th story:This one is somewhat mixed emotions. But if you like Wall.E then maybe you’ll enjoy This story. To those who have seen Wall.E, most will agree that it carries a Beautiful love story within the movie; passion between wall.E and Eve form throughout, and at the end, they share something magical that most humans do to show affection to one another as described in the dialogue below. To Read this conversation, Please start at the bottom of the message Reading ”^^^^^” and work your way back up.
well when you see wall.E, you’ll understand (I guess you cud say) …the magic of a robot kiss (as corny as that may sound) a robot kiss is magical!
————————- Original Message ————————- okay
————————- Original Message ————————- what do you mean? you call a robot kiss…a robot kiss. its that simple
————————- Original Message ————————- somethn to call robot kiss
————————- Original Message ————————- think of what?
————————- Original Message ————————- think of something
————————- Original Message ————————- haha! what do you mean find it?
————————- Original Message ————————- okay. lol. imma find somethng called robot kiss
————————- Original Message ————————- haha! well IF N WHEN we do “hold hands”, we can call it kissing hands I guess…lol. kissing ears sounds better though. haha! and the robot kiss…sounds…cute.
————————- Original Message ————————- i know i just didnt know what to say, shut up, leave me alone. lol. trynna say u dont wanna hold my hand. lol
————————- Original Message ————————- that would be holding hands wouldn’t it? it doesn’t have much to do with a robot kiss
————————- Original Message ————————- why not two hands kissing
————————- Original Message ————————- I’ma try to picture that all week. mmm…kissing with your hands. I don’t see how that would work? I get kissing ears, (that’s one of my mottoes: start with kissing ears) but kissing hands, that seems unpicture-able…
————————- Original Message ————————- omg. u said no lips so imma use my hand
————————- Original Message ————————- lol. huh???
————————- Original Message ————————- imma use my hand. hahahahaha.
————————- Original Message ————————- omg! LOL! well that’s gonna be hard to accomplish, because a robot kiss doesn’t involve the mouth. Ill try to remember that though! haha! robot kiss!
————————- Original Message ————————- ok. if n when we ever kiss ill do it like a robot. lol
————————- Original Message ————————- For reals! When you see it, you’ll know what I mean by robot kiss! Now that, I find cute! They robot kiss!!!
————————- Original Message ————————- hahaha robot kiss
————————- Original Message ————————- omg! You gotta watch it! I think its a pretty good love movie overall! How Wall.E is all alone on earth until he meet Eve! Then he’s crushing on Eve and tries so hard to get her, but it don’t seem like she cares, but at the end, she tries to save him. omg! He goes into outer space just to save her! omg! and then they kiss at the end!!! (well sorta kiss. they don’t actually got mouths, so they robot kiss)
————————- Original Message ————————- i still havent seen it
————————- Original Message ————————- OMG!!! WALL.E!!!
————————- Original Message ————————- it was whatever
————————- Original Message ————————- I cant think of not one…uh…50 first dates?
————————- Original Message ————————- thats prettii koo
————————- Original Message ————————- it’s a Rom/Com about a fat guy that likes this girl but she only thinks of them as just friends. and time passes the guy looses weight and goes back to get the girl. at the end, he scores!
————————- Original Message ————————- whats just friends
————————- Original Message ————————- I cant think of any rite now! ummm…just friends?
————————- Original Message ————————- i think those r the only luv movies i like.
————————- Original Message ————————- that does sound nice. I be watching love movies all the time, but for some reason I haven’t seen that one. what other ones you like?
————————- Original Message ————————- my other fav movie is PS I luv u. that movie made me cry. hes dead but left notes for her to get through her life n help her move on.
————————- Original Message ————————- I like that movie! but I wouldn’t say its my favorite, pretty close though. my favorite romance movie is A LOT LIKE LOVE!!! it pretty old, but I like the plot to it, how they still like each other even though they’re apart constantly as time passes and the cheesy love music throughout it is my favorite! I think I’ma watch it now.
————————- Original Message ————————- lol. a walk to remember is my favorite movie of all time
————————- Original Message ————————- hah! your watching a walk to remember!?!
7th story:Last Story is something quite different. It leans more towards one of relationship’s most biggest decisions…marriage. The Real Analysis on whether both partners were as sprung over as one another cannot be certain for that would mean knowing both sides of the story, but since only one side is known, that is the side on which Ill be telling the story from; and this much I Do know, that side took Every word seriously. Normally I’m not one to point out whether this came from an opposite-gender relationship, or from a same-gender, but since it Does need to be stated for partial of the story to be understood, exposing these two people’s gender is needed. This is the story about two male-beings in which one fell over completely for. Starts out as random as most connections do, a complement through Myspace followed by exchanging phone numbers for texting. Once texting begins, Flirting and “Hitting on” each other follows. I believe the fall of this Relationship was set in place once the topic of sex was mentioned. I couldn’t get the texts to their EXACT words, but I’ll try to write them out as close as possible.
…I’ve never had sex before. —-
Don’t worry babe. I can wait. —-
awww. :D —-
Is marriage legal in California? —-
Straight marriage is, but not gay. California had a new law implaced during voting time. They had prop 8, which was deciding whether or not gay marriage should be allowed or not. Sadly, people voted yes on it and the law passed to ban gay marriage. —-
oh. then lets go to Connecticut one day and do it there. :D —-
I’d want our 1st date to be at the theater. We would sit with each other inside the theater and I could watch the movie as I hug you. —-
I’d like that. …would you make out with me babe? —-
how tall are you? —-
that might be a problem. I’m 5’3. how am I supposed to reach you? :/ —-
…I can kneel babe. ;]
*I normally find it a bit odd for two people to date, who are Complete different heights, but making a gesture Like That makes it all worth wild. I can even picture someone doing that for a loved one. A gesture like that is a perfect wayto brighten someone’s emotions for you.*
So as you read These stories, please take into mind what I’m trying to get society to understand: Love shouldn’t be based on gender, or should only be looked at as what “orientation” your physically attracted to. My definition of Love is just finding someone who you can be comfortable enough to: Share orange slice with, Read a poem aloud to, experience a meaningful “1st time” together with, explore the magic of a “Robot Kiss”, Or Simply just Being Comfortable enough to kneel down for someone…& Take-In an unforgettable 1st-“taste”…